Talking with a female friend and she disclosed that she found unavailable men attractive, more so than those free and single without any ties.
Without (my albeit hypocritical) mention of the married man, I thought about it and openly disagreed. On the whole I find unavailable men, just that unavailable and frankly less attractive. I am not one for sneaking around but more than that I don't like to be second, or third, or even fourth.
I want to be number one and will not apologise for that!
I value honesty high, if a man can be strategically and consistently dishonest,
I find that a turn off. I am reminded of a saying with regard to ending a discontent relationships: “A man doesn't get off a bus unless a taxi is waiting.”. How attractive!
Again, I want a man who is strong enough to discover that being happily single has greater advantages than being unhappy in a relationship.
I've added this to my ongoing list of 'ideal qualities in a man'. Yeah, that list is not only growing, but increasingly unrealistic. See point 27: “Must be called... Joaquin Phoenix”!