To be dominated:
I want to not think and just act. It's still early days in my dominated fantasy, so mainly I want to get a call instructing me to go somewhere at a certain time, dressed in a specific way. I have to make a lot of decisions at work, so the thought of not having to be in control turns me on. That and spanking of course! I need discipline. Men tend to see me as a strong and independent woman, which I am at work. At home, I am an emotional and neurotic mess.
As much as it turns me on to fantasise about being dominated, the opposite gets me just as wet. I would very much like to tie up a strong man and get him to do just as I say. If that's what turned him on! I'm not about to go around kidnapping men on the off chance.
I used to play a game with an ex where we would tie each other up and touch/stroke/tickling each other with feathers and other inanimate objects to the point of giving in, the one who held out the longest won.